Why do some people refuse to use condoms? A safety issue that cannot be avoided during sex

Preface

Every summer, couples seem to become more intimate. Have you ever encountered a situation where two people are deeply in love but end up arguing over whether or not to use a condom?

This is a very common yet often overlooked issue.

Especially among young couples, the question of whether to use a condom often becomes a technical yet emotionally charged topic of discussion, and there are significant differences in attitudes between men and women on this matter.

Why do many men dislike wearing condoms?

This question is actually not difficult to understand.

From the experience of most men, the sensation of sex while wearing a condom is indeed not perfect.

The most common reasons include:

Poor physical sensation

A condom is essentially a barrier material. No matter how thin it is, it is not ‘zero.’

Therefore, many men report that the sensation is significantly reduced after wearing a condom, describing it as “not realistic enough,” “lacking warmth,” or “unnatural friction.” These are common descriptions they use.

Size issues or discomfort

If the condom is the wrong size, it can cause a feeling of restriction or slippage.

Some men may feel ‘uncomfortable due to tightness’ or ‘too loose to feel secure,’ and these experiences can also affect their sexual desire and stamina.

Latex allergies or odour issues

Although uncommon, some people are allergic to latex products, with symptoms including itching, redness, and stinging.

Additionally, the odour of condoms (especially some low-cost products) may also be a factor that disrupts the experience.

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Do women really like wearing condoms?

This question is often overlooked, but from a woman's perspective, whether or not to wear a condom can have an even greater impact on sexual pleasure.

Condoms without lubricant are smoother

Although condoms typically come with lubricant, the lubricant gradually diminishes during use.

If the session lasts longer, it can easily lead to dryness, causing discomfort or even pain.

Additionally, some women have insufficient natural lubrication, and using a dry condom can exacerbate friction-related discomfort, diminishing the overall experience.

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Lack of realism

Many women report that wearing a condom feels ‘artificial,’ as if separated by a thin membrane.

What was once felt—the texture, shape, temperature, and elasticity of the penis—becomes blurred when a condom is worn.

If described in one sentence, it would be, ‘It feels like something is entering, but it's not him himself.’ This is not an emotional issue but a genuine difference in tactile sensation.

Even if you don't like it, you must use a condom

After saying all this, the most important point is: whether or not to use a condom is separate from whether or not you like it.

From a sexual health perspective, condoms are not only the most common method of contraception, but also an effective tool for preventing the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, protecting both men and women.

Responsibility isn't just one person's job

Many girls are more easily persuaded in relationships, like when he says, ‘It's safe during my fertile period’ or ‘I'll control myself.’ These statements sound like trust, but they're actually risky.

If you do get pregnant and have to have an abortion, it's usually the woman who has to deal with the physical and mental stress.

Even if he's willing to take responsibility, he can't take on all the consequences for you.

So, girls need to be firm: no condom, no sex.

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How to make it more comfortable?

If you truly care about the ‘barrier feeling’ caused by condoms, there are now many improved options available on the market.

• Choose ultra-thin condoms, such as those with a thickness of 0.01mm, which can achieve ‘ultra-close fit’;
• Use with water-based lubricant to significantly reduce dryness and friction discomfort;
• Try different brands and models to find the one that suits you best.

Remember, safety and comfort are not mutually exclusive; with the right approach, both can be achieved.

Conclusion

Sex is a matter between two people, but contraception is never a matter of one person accommodating the other; rather, it is a matter of mutual respect for the relationship.

Whether you are a man or a woman, don't treat ‘whether to wear a condom’ as a gamble. Love is impulsive, but it is also a responsibility.

From today onwards, let's stop arguing about ‘wearing a condom’ and instead reach a consensus on ‘safety.’

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