[Knowledge] What have adult films misled us about? Uncovering Seven Major Misconceptions

Preface

In many late-night moments, we may inadvertently turn on a certain adult film, as if they are the only outlet for us to release our deepest emotions.

But the truth is that the various scenes and statements in these films can easily lead to various misconceptions about sex.

Some people, even as they grow older, are still addicted to this illusory artistic effect, which makes people both heartbroken and helpless.

Today, let's talk about those common misconceptions and try to recognise and understand those issues about sex from a more realistic perspective.

Men's section

Is penis size really that important?

I remember when I was a kid, curiosity drove us to watch some adult films, and we even had to secretly compare them when we peed.

At that time, we always thought that a bigger penis represented higher confidence and a more perfect sexual experience, as if only the ‘bigger’ one could make the other party more comfortable.

In fact, the truth is far more complicated than we think, for example, the famous Japanese male actor Kato Taka has won the recognition of countless viewers with his excellent skills.

In fact, as long as the erection reaches 10-12 cm is completely enough, and the real important thing, in fact, is to continue to learn and practice, to master those skills to make both sides satisfied.

Sex duration: the longer the better?

I don't know when, sexual durability has become synonymous with male ability.

How many men feel inferior to their own three-minute battle because they watched those tens of minutes of sex in Hong Kong's third-rate film ‘3D Popeye's Troupe’ or adult films?

But the truth is that most men (about 75 per cent) will ejaculate in about three minutes of sex. The real quality of sex does not lie in the length of time, but in whether both parties are committed and enjoy the process.

Just like a nice meal, it's not how long you eat it that matters, but whether it's tasty.

Instead of chasing time numbers, focus on creating a pleasurable experience for both parties and find your rhythm and fit with each other.

If you don't squirt, you don't have an orgasm?

Many men have the misconception that when they watch a film in which the female protagonist squirts when she climaxes, they think that this is the only sign of female orgasm.

In fact, research by sexologists shows that only about 25% to 30% of women experience this phenomenon when they orgasm.

In fact, there are two main ways that most women experience orgasm:

• A clitoris-based ‘warm, tickling, electric shock-like stimulation’.
• A deep, throbbing, comforting sensation, mainly in the vagina.

Both experiences are very different and can be extremely pleasurable, and the squirting in films is often the result of drinking a lot of water before filming and specific camera effects, which is not necessarily the case for every woman.

Can masturbation cause premature ejaculation?

There is a misconception circulating in society that frequent masturbation can lead to premature ejaculation.

But the opposite is true. Instead of damaging sexual performance, moderate masturbation can help men learn about their bodies and master ejaculation control.

Imagine that masturbation is like working out. Proper exercise can increase muscular endurance and control.

Through masturbation, you can learn to recognise when you're approaching the threshold of ejaculation and gradually increase your tolerance for stimulation, but of course, the way you masturbate is also important.

Exercising with masturbation equipment allows you to have better control over your rhythm without time pressure or emotional distractions, so that you can perform more calmly and confidently during actual sex.

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Women's section

Labia colour: what does the shade mean?

There has always been a saying that the darker the colour of your labia, the more sexual experiences you have had.

This is not only one-sided, but also makes many girls feel unnecessarily inferior about their bodies.

In fact, the colour of the labia is mainly affected by hormone production, daily friction and melanin deposits.

A healthy body is often accompanied by natural hormonal changes, dark labia are more likely to be a reflection of the body's health and natural state, rather than a sign of promiscuity.

Body Hair: Should I leave no hair on?

In the summer, many girls start to think about removing their hair, and even make a point of getting rid of it in their private parts before they get intimate with the person they want to be with.

They believe that no hair is necessary to look clean and beautiful, while those hairs are regarded as unhygienic symbols.

In fact, this concept is not absolute, since we do not require boys to be meticulously shaved, the natural state of girls should not be too harsh.

The treatment of female private hair in adult films is more for artistic effect, while in life we should respect our own natural state, don't let the outside world's standards to kidnap their own beauty.

Is areola size, really always important?

It is common to hear on the internet that, ‘If your girlfriend has large areolas, it must be because she has had too many sexual experiences.’

This ignorant view makes many women feel troubled by their bodies, and some even go so far as to pursue the so-called perfection through surgery.

In fact, the size and colour of nipples and areolas are all natural, and their change from light to dark is completely normal and not necessarily related to one's sexual experience.

Everyone's beauty is unique, and just as the leading ladies in a film have their own style, we should also cherish and accept our own natural beauty.

In conclusion

Although adult films used to be the beginning of sexual enlightenment and exploration in many people's minds, it is more important for us to know ourselves and understand sex in a scientific and objective manner.

Don't take those fictional plots as reality, and don't blindly accept the gossip.

Understand the real knowledge of sex, can really learn to love their own bodies, respect their own feelings, but also let themselves have a healthier and happier life.

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