[Knowledge] The real secrets behind boys' sexual behaviour, how much do you know?

Preface

Girls who have just been in a relationship often have this question: ‘Do I really know my boyfriend?’ Often, we will find that the relationship is getting closer and closer, but there always seems to be an ‘invisible wall’ between each other.

Especially when it comes to sexual matters, girls always feel that the behaviour of boys is unpredictable.

Today, we will unveil these secrets to help you better understand boys.

Kissing hands are not honest, is it a normal reaction?

Most girls in intimate contact will encounter a phenomenon: boys in kissing, hands always seem to be unable to resist to ‘explore’, especially the chest, almost become the primary target.

From the male physiological point of view, this is an instinctive reaction.

Breasts have a strong sexual attraction in the eyes of men, which is derived from the instinctive mechanism of sexual arousal.

Many girls, although the mouth will say hate, but in the actual process is not repulsive, and even on the contrary, enhance the sense of intimacy.

However, it should be reminded that even in the heat of the moment, it is important to pay attention to the occasion and respect the boundaries of the other party.

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Boys are not all thick and long!

Many girls are under the impression that men's penises seem to be thick and long, largely influenced by pornographic films; in reality, this is far from the case.

According to research data from the American Urological Association (AUA):

• When not erect, the average length is 7-9cm.
• In the erect state, the average length is 10-16cm.

Only if the length is less than 4cm in the natural state and less than 8cm in the erect state, the penis is defined as short.

This means that the ‘18cm hero’ in the film is a rare exception and not a reference.

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In addition, penis length does not directly affect sexual performance or partner satisfaction, but the quality of interaction, rhythm control, and emotional communication between the two partners are more crucial factors than length.

Men and women think very differently from each other!

The most common complaint from girls when they are first making friends is, ‘How come he doesn't understand what I'm thinking?’ In fact, this lack of understanding stems from the innate differences in thinking between men and women:

Girls focus on the process, boys focus on the results

Girls pay more attention to the process of emotion and empathy, while boys are more inclined to use ‘problem-solving’ thinking to deal with the problem.

Girls think out of the box, boys tend to summarise

Girls usually think in leaps and bounds and have delicate feelings, while boys are used to solving one thing at a time, and can't quite understand girls' ‘coherence’.

Girls are more emotional and boys are more rational

Girls are more likely to be driven by their feelings when expressing their emotions and making decisions, while boys tend to be more analytical and logical.

Girls tend to be ‘right on’ and guys tend to be ‘right on’

When arguing, girls may rehash a lot of old scores, but guys usually just want to solve the problem at hand.

Understanding these differences is not to classify who is right and who is wrong, but rather to hope that couples think more differently and learn to communicate with each other in the other's way, in order to truly understand each other.

Men and women don't synchronise their orgasms during sex

Men and women find it difficult to synchronise completely during sex, especially when it comes to the timing of orgasm, where the differences are very pronounced.

• Boys: climax in 3-5 minutes on average.
• Girls: it usually takes more than 8-10 minutes to reach orgasm

This is not a problem of anyone, but a natural difference in the structure of sexual physiology and response mechanisms.

This is not a problem for anyone, but a natural difference in the physiological structure and response mechanism of sex.

Coupled with the fact that the finishing and recovery after sex is also different: girls often need more time to clean up and recover emotionally, while boys may be ‘a shot immediately to sleep’, which makes many girls feel lost, that the boys do not pay attention to their own.

In fact, as long as the boys in the process before and after more considerate and responsive, many misunderstandings can be avoided.

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Conclusion

Relationships and sex are the business of two people.

Often, girls misunderstand that a guy is ‘cold’ or ‘doesn't care’, but behind the scenes it may just be that he doesn't understand what you need, or doesn't know how to express it.

On the other hand, guys are often confused, do not understand why the girl is always in the ‘emotional’, or even in his view unnecessary things over and over again.

The root of these problems actually comes from the physical and psychological differences between the sexes, and understanding each other is the best way to start communicating.

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