How to do scientific training with a masturbator?

Preface

When many people talk about the masturbator, they tend to think of it only as a tool for daily stress relief or venting.

But if you think of it as a training aid, you can use it for ‘control training’: improving stamina and delaying sensitivity, which can make you more comfortable in real intimate situations.

Start with selection and preparation

If you want to use a masturbator as a training tool, the first step is to pick the right style.

For beginners, don't pick the extreme stimulation type right away, it's easy to lose control due to too much intensity, but rather discourage the confidence, you should start from the moderately stimulation, relatively mild design style.

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In terms of lubrication, always use a water-based lubricant, especially when you are training to keep it well lubricated to avoid discomfort or damage from friction.

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One more key point is the environment: choose a room that is quiet, private and not easily disturbed, so that you can relax and give your full attention to training.

The four stages of training

The following training route, which I have worked out and am also adapting, allows for the flexibility to lengthen or shorten the phases according to individual circumstances.

Phase 1: Adaptation and Observation (1-2 weeks)

The goal is to get your body re-adapted to the stimulation from this sex toy.

You can do this for 5-10 minutes a day, not forcing the number of times or results, but focusing on feeling the masturbator: rhythm, pressure, strength, breathing.

Do not aim for pleasure peaks at this point, emphasise familiarity, observe when you become sensitive.

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Stage 2: Sensitivity Control (2-3 weeks)

Once you become familiar with masturbator stimulation, you can move on to sensitivity control training.

Commonly used method is the ‘start-pause method’: that is, when you feel that you are about to ejaculate, immediately stop stimulation, wait 20-30 seconds to breathe and relax and then continue, and persistently, you will slowly learn to detect the body's tipping point, and master the ability to inhibit impulses. I use a rotational technique at this stage.

I commonly use rotary or suction styles at this stage, as they provide variation in the intensity of stimulation during training and help you to switch rhythms.

This type of masturbator is better for training perceived boundaries than a single vibration or fixed structure.

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Stage 3: Endurance and Rhythm Exercises (3-4 weeks or more)

Once you have some control over your sensitivity, set a duration goal (e.g. 10 minutes).

During the training, try varying the tempo: slow down for a while, then fast, then slow down again.

Control the intensity, don't go heavy with a brain, the key is for the body to learn to come back down and not ejaculate right off the bat even at different intensities.

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Stage 4: Consolidation and personalisation (long term)

After the first three stages, the basic training framework is established.

The later stages are more about maintenance and fine-tuning, for example, some may need to go back to the sensitivity stage to continue to hone; some may try more advanced masturbators to enhance stimulation richness.

The key is to maintain frequency and practice diligently, while making adjustments based on how you feel.

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A few principles to focus on for training

Cleaning Priority

Thoroughly clean the masturbator before and after each training session, warm water + neutral detergent is recommended, dry it and store it, bacterial infections can cause problems for training and health.

Lubrication Keep

Use water-based lubricant and replenish it at any time during training, never save lubrication, otherwise the friction will hurt the sensitive parts and also reduce the training experience.

Frequency Control

The frequency of training should not be too high, it is generally recommended that 2-3 times per week is sufficient, too frequent will make the sensitivity decrease, but counterproductive.

Pay attention to your body

If you feel fatigued, over-stimulated or uncomfortable during training, you should take a proper rest day. There is no need to push yourself.

The goal of training is to gradually increase control, not to overdo it.

Variety of stimulation

As training progresses, you can gradually introduce masturbators or sex toys with different structures and functions.

This prevents the body from adapting to a single form of stimulation and improves the effectiveness of the training.

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Product Recommendations for Hands-on Advice

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If you don't like any of these, you can also prioritise the following types of functional styles: adjustable strength, rotation/suction add-on, richly textured interiors, and easy to dismantle and wash construction.

Alternating between a few different styles will make training more effective and less likely to go into ‘adjustment phase’ too quickly.

Conclusion

The key to using a masturbator as a training tool is choosing the right style, keeping it lubricated and clean, setting milestones, practicing gradually, and listening to your body's feedback.

With the wide range of sex toys we offer at Bestvibe, you have the flexibility to mix and match training formats.

With consistent practice, you can gradually build control over your sensitive spots and increase your stamina.

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