Can’t Reach Orgasm with a Vibrator?

Preface

If you too have been in the middle of masturbation and just felt like you were about to climax, only to suddenly remove the vibrator and then the whole thing becomes even more annoying and uncomfortable, don't worry, you're not alone.

Many people think that it is the problem of the vibrator, so they change the model, change the brand, change a more gentle vibration gear, but the problem is still not solved.

So what's wrong? Why is it always involuntarily interrupted just before the moment of near orgasm?

Today we will talk about: 4 core reasons why you always want to take away the vibrator in the middle of masturbation, and how you can determine which one you belong to.

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Category 1: the stimulation is too strong, the body can not adapt in time

This is a very common situation, especially in the first contact with the vibrator users are more common.

Many friends for the first time with a mid-range vibration of the vibrator masturbation, not yet a few minutes to feel the vulva numb and swollen, and even a little bit of tingling, had to take away immediately.

The reason is simple - the intensity of vibration exceeds the body's acceptance threshold, the clitoris is a very sensitive area, strong stimulation will make the body instinctively produce a sense of rejection, and even accompanied by a slight pain.

Solution:

• Change to a product with a lower vibration frequency and a softer vibration.
• For first time use, it is recommended to use a lubricant to reduce friction.
• Do not apply directly to the clitoris at first, but start with the surrounding area.

Category 2: the state of mind has not reached

Sometimes, many people's bodies are free, but the brain is thinking, but also in the work, study, interpersonal conflict on the spin.

This state of masturbation, it is easy to appear a ‘feel no pleasure’, ‘suddenly no feeling’ situation.

Solution:

• Find a suitable way to help you enjoy yourself, such as watching suitable adult films and listening to sexy sound content.
• Give yourself a relatively regular ‘masturbation ritual time’ to focus on physical sensations.
• Breathe deeply and relax, and focus your attention on your body, not your thoughts.

Category 3: Physical state temporarily unsuitable for masturbation

This problem is rare, but it does exist.

Factors such as staying up late for a long time, physical fatigue, menstruation just ended, the effect of drugs, emotional depression, etc., will affect the body's response to sexual stimulation.

Solution:

• Give your body time to recover, such as getting a good night's sleep, drinking water, and supplementing with nutrients.
• Stop masturbating for a while to regain strength and energy first.
• If there is no sexual desire or response for several weeks, it is advisable to consult a medical professional to check your health condition.

Category 4: You haven't emotionally accepted that you can have an orgasm on your own.

This is the core of this article, but it is also the most easily overlooked.

Some people know on an intellectual level that masturbation and orgasms are normal, but on a subconscious level, they still haven't ‘allowed’ themselves to enjoy the experience.

This lack of acceptance on a psychological level often causes people to interrupt the whole process before they have an orgasm.

There are two criteria for judgement:

① Almost no one close to you (either in reality or online) ever talks about pornography or sex.

② When others talk about pornography or sex, you either remain silent or quickly skip over the conversation and don't get involved.

If you fit both of these scenarios, it's likely that you haven't emotionally allowed yourself to ‘masturbate to orgasm’.

This brings us to the often overlooked difference between rational acceptance vs. emotional acceptance.

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Rational Acceptance vs Emotional Acceptance

• Rational Acceptance: You logically and intellectually understand that orgasms are reasonable, normal and permissible.
• Emotional Acceptance: You ‘truly identify with orgasm and allow’ yourself to experience or feel it, and no longer have emotional reactions such as resistance, shame, or denial.

Summary

The fact that you can't help taking the vibrator away in the middle of masturbation isn't necessarily because the vibrator is bad, but more often than not, it's because your body, mind, and emotions aren't in sync with each other in a way that's ‘acceptable for orgasm’.

Let's review the four possibilities:

• The vibration is too strong for the body to adapt to. 2. the mental state is offline, the mind is not in sync.
• The mental state is offline and the mind and body are not in sync.
• The body is not in a state suitable for masturbation.
• The mind is not ready to accept that you can orgasm.

If you find yourself in category 4, it is recommended that you do not force yourself to continue practising masturbation and turn your attention to something else, such as exercising, reading, socialising, and your body will tell you the answer when you are truly ready.

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