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Can women really be happy with anal sex?

Written by: Bestvibe Published on April 17,2025

Preface

I don't know if you've noticed, but in many adult movies there are always scenes of anal sex in addition to the normal intimate scenes.

I used to wonder when I saw such scenes: why would anyone want to try such a seemingly troublesome and uncomfortable method?

I even thought that if a girl actively wanted to try it, she was probably being led on by a guy.

I used to think the same thing. Always thought that orgasms were something that only had to do with the clitoris or the reproductive system, and had nothing to do with the anus.

But then I experienced more, understood more, and slowly realized - the source of pleasure, in fact, in the brain, not in a specific part of the body.

So now if someone asks me: can girls really be happy with anal sex?I will answer: yes, but it is not easy.

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Where there is sensation, there can be pleasure

The reason why we feel comfortable and happy is because the brain secretes some ‘pleasure substances’.

Like the clitoris, it will not ‘produce pleasure’, it is only a very sensitive tactile signal source, the stimulation signal into the brain, and really make us feel ‘cool’, is the brain.

From this point of view, as long as a part of the body has the sense of touch, it is possible to become a source of pleasure.

So what is a tactile area?

Very simple: as long as you can feel in that part of the acid, numbness, itching, cold, heat, distension, foreign body sensation, discomfort ...... that is considered to be a sense of touch. The anus and intestines, naturally, are included.

But be careful: there is a sense of touch ≠ must be able to be happy!

From the ‘touch’ to ‘pleasure’, there is a very critical step: the brain's [pleasure conversion mechanism].

Everyone's brain mechanism is different. Some people can turn a slight stimulus into a lot of pleasure, such as clamping the legs of the orgasm, some people how to get no feeling.

There are also some people because they feel ashamed of masturbation, they blocked the feeling of pleasure for themselves, obviously using the same toys, the same position, the body is not a problem, the result is that there is no orgasm, so you see, pleasure is not only a technical work, it is a matter of the brain.

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Can women feel pleasure during anal sex?

Theoretically: the anus and intestines are tactile, and then during anal sex it is possible for the brain to translate these tactile sensations into pleasure.

So, both men and women can actually feel pleasure from anal sex.

Why are men more likely to ‘get off’?

Because they have prostate glands.

In anal sex, if you stimulate this super sensitive ‘G-spot’, the pleasure is very strong, but the girls do not have a prostate gland, they can feel, mainly intestines to bring tactile stimulation, or in some specific angles, toys can be slightly pressed into the body of the clitoral tissues, which brings some indirect pleasure.

However, the intestinal tract is not an organ designed for pleasure, it is mainly responsible for defecation, so the nerves are not so dense, but also not sensitive enough, we can feel the daily ‘poop’, is already the limit of its tactile sensation.

To put it simply, the same piece of vibration:

  • Putting it in the clitoris may be ‘level 10 pleasure’.
  • In the intestines, it may only be a ‘faint level 1 sensation’.

If your brain's pleasure conversion mechanism requires a tactile intensity of 3 or more to be effective, then this stimulus will not activate the conversion system at all, and the result will be: no sensation.

So it's not that anal sex is not pleasurable for girls, but that the threshold for this path of pleasure is relatively high.

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Don't try anal sex blindly!

The theory is feasible ≠ the practice is simple, anal sex is not an easy and enjoyable thing for most girls’.

Trouble #1: Difficult to clean

It's difficult to get completely clean,It's simply unacceptable to those with a cleanliness fetish.

Trouble #2: Risky for the Body

Unlike the vagina, the intestine is not protected by lubricant, and its inner wall is more fragile and sensitive, so if you are not careful, you may be injured by friction or even bleeding.

Especially in the state of high emotions and decreased pain during sex, it is likely to be injured without knowing.

And once you really hurt your intestines, not only pain, but also easy to get infected, the consequences are serious.

So, if you are not skilled enough, inexperienced, not fully prepared for the new players, forced to try anal sex, it is likely to be ‘high risk, low return, or even zero return’ thing.

A final word of advice

Anal sex is not an exclusive plaything for guys, there are quite a few girls who enjoy it and even indulge in it, and these people who enjoy anal sex are not deviants or brainwashed, but rather - their brains happen to be suited for this kind of stimulation.

But again, it needs to be emphasised: anal sex is not for everyone!

So, if you're doing it out of curiosity, learn about it before you try it, such as using small toys or anal plugs to slowly get used to it.

Never get on the bandwagon just to please someone or on a whim - not only is it uncomfortable, but it can also leave a shadow.

Not everyone can enjoy anal sex, but everyone can choose a pleasurable way that suits them.

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